FOLIO
My mom listens to your podcast a lot. She told me I should listen as well saying “it’s a great example of how a healthy relationship can be.” Thanks for all the laughs and inspiration, for it’s inspiration I need.
I’m 17 years old and my uncle got me a job at his dentist office. I basically answer the phones. I do a good job, but I’m afraid to tell everyone involved I want more in life. I’m very outgoing and love to laugh with my friends. What I want to do is go to college and get into the entertainment industry. Either in front of the camera or behind the scenes. I’m pretty sure, OK, I know this won’t go over well with my parents. But I really want to do it.
I know Terry is in the industry, so could he give me some insight on what I can expect? And can Shari give me some encouraging words on how to approach this with with my parents?
Thank you.
Courtney (Court)
Kansas City, Missouri
TERRY: I’m envious. 17 years old and full of dreams. What an exciting time.
SHARI: I would never want to be 17 years old again. What a painful time. I really think college is a great choice. I don’t think any parent would ever say no to that.
TERRY: Well, it’s a good thing I’m not a parent because I disagree. Some of the best advice I ever received came from a guy named Jeff Sotzing. He was my brother’s friend, and Jeff was Johnny Carson’s nephew and worked on “The Tonight Show.” I had lunch with him hoping that he could get me a job at NBC so I could get my foot in the door.
SHARI: This story again?
TERRY: Shut your pie hole. He said he could easily get me a job there, but why would I want that if I desired a career in front of the camera. That was the exact moment I decided to try my hand at standup, acting and radio.
SHARI: That worked out for you, but the odds weren’t in your favor.
TERRY: Who cares about the odds? I felt alive and fearless. If you’re lucky enough to have those feelings you’re going to make it.
SHARI: Do you have the same advice for a career behind the scenes?
TERRY: No. College is the best choice there. Especially if you’re not 1000% sure of what you want to do. Try it all. Acting in a school play. Learn how to block and direct and set design etc … Be open to it all and see what holds your interest the most.
SHARI: Court, don’t be afraid to talk to your parents about this. You’re young, and they know you’ll want to try new things. I think a thought out plan would go a long way with them. If you get any negative feedback from them, it’s only because they have your best interest in mind.
TERRY: That’s a great point. But overall, I’m so excited for you. You’re young. Go out there and take some chances. There’s no such thing as failure. Please keep in touch.
SHARI: We’re cheering you on.
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