FOLIO
Dear Davi,
My humans are insistent on bringing home a young pup. How can I keep my cool while welcoming this whippersnapper into my home?
Carly the Collie
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Carly,
When a new puppy joins the family, it seems like everything revolves around him for a while. Sometimes the elder dog doesn’t share the same enthusiasm and may not welcome another dog into his den.
As the sole protector of my homestead, I’m no expert on the topic, but I found some ways to ensure a peaceful transition for the pup while preventing you from feeling jealous or hurt.
Find Neutral Ground Since you’re probably not keen on sharing your space with the new kid, it’s best for your human to make this initial introduction in a neutral location—like a park or public lot—so you’re less likely to see the newcomer as a territorial intruder. If the meeting goes swimmingly, you should be allowed to interact off-leash in a safe area, giving you freedom to form a relationship with the pup.
Doggie Communication When it comes to communication, cut Junior some slack. Puppies have really poor social skills and don’t know the rules of the road when it comes to interacting with new and different dogs. It’s your duty to teach him where the lines are drawn:
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- DON’T jump on my head.
- DON’T steal my toys.
- DON’T put your face in my food bowl while I’m eating.
- DON’T walk on me–or sit on me.
- DON’T bark in my face.
Growling and even some minor snapping is normal, but no bullying. With time and patience, he’ll learn his limits.
Make Space Make sure that you–and the puppy—have an escape route and a safe space to go to get away for some alone time. Everyone needs solitary time once in a while. Maintaining separation during the first few weeks is important.
Go for a Walk It’s a fact: Dogs socialize more when they’re on a walk, hunting together. Once you’re comfortable walking side-by-side, take time to sniff and investigate each other at intervals—no need rousing fear or aggression from prolonged interaction. You might even get treats for good behavior!
Food Fight Breaking bread with a hungry pup can lead to a showdown. I suggest taking your meal to another room to avoid a bowl battle. Feeding separately will ensure you get your share while removing anxiety that could hinder digestion.
One-on-One Time It’s also important to spend individual time with your human. Neither dog should be made to feel as if he is not the favorite.
With a little management—OK, a lot of management, because hey, puppy—a young pup and a wiser dog can thrive together. Bear in mind that your human must be prepared to play emcee and supervise visits until all is calm.
March 23 is National Puppy Day, to celebrate the magic and unconditional love that puppies bring to our lives. More important, it’s a day to help save orphaned puppies across the globe and educate the public about the horrors of puppy mills.
Learn more about National Puppy Day at nationalpuppyday.com.
Happy harmony,
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Davi the dachshund is one lucky wise dog ’cause he’s perma-puppy size.
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