Dear Davi,
I love my mom.
How will she be able to tell this, since I don’t exactly speak her language?
Oliver the Otterhound
Oliver,
Bringing home a bouquet of flowers is probably not an option, but showing your undying love for your human is simple and natural.
Cuddling. Many dogs yearn to be as physically close to their humans as possible. If you snuggle up next to her or lean against her every chance you get, rest assured she feels your love.
Locking eyes. Gazing into her eyes with no obvious reason for attention is showing extraordinary devotion and delight for your human. Looking at her releases oxytocin in you — the same hormone that helps mothers bond with babies — and helps you both feel happy and relaxed.
Following her around. You want to be wherever your human is, so you tirelessly follow her from room to room, or to the ends of the Earth, just to be in her company.
Tail wagging. Wagging your tail, especially to the right, when you see her is a sign of sheer joy. Not only does it show affection, it signifies ultimate respect.
Licking. This is a form of endearment, similar to kissing. Like it or not, it’s a slobbery way of showing you care, and it releases endorphins that help you feel comfort and pleasure.
Playing. We connect with humans through play. Showing affection by initiating play, like tug of war or fetch, is healthy for you and your human. And it plays a huge role in forming a lasting bond.
Cats share the love, too. Really!
Bunting.When a cat rubs against you, that’s called bunting — it’s a form of feline affection. Cats reserve this activity for their most favorite creatures, so when you get bunted, consider it an honor.
Gifting. Some cats bring their humans gifts: toys, dead bugs, mice, even rats. When a cat brings these treasures, he’s sharing his prey with you — an act of love.
Lap-napping. Cats sleep a lot. Falling asleep makes a cat vulnerable, so she snoozes only in safe spots. If one of those spots is your lap, you should feel cherished.
Love eyes. When a cat puts his face close to yours and stares with wide-open eyes, then blinks slowly, he’s showing you how much he loves and trusts you.
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Treat Mom to brunch at a local dog-friendly spot. Some may be busy; call ahead.
Black Sheep
1534 Oak St., Riverside. Hand-crafted fare from local ingredients; weekend brunch; lower patio welcomes dogs; water provided.
The Candy Apple Café
400 N. Hogan St., Downtown. French-inspired fare with a Southern twist; brunch all day every day; pooch-friendly porch seating; water provided.
Taverna
1986 San Marco Blvd., San Marco. Italian and Spanish cuisine; dog-friendly outdoor dining; water bowls, treats provided.
Metro Diner
1534 Third St. N., Jax Beach. Comfort food with flair; breakfast and
brunch daily; dog-friendly outdoor patio; water provided.
First Watch
544 Marsh Landing Pkwy., Ste. 4, Jax Beach. Freshly prepared breakfast, brunch & lunch daily; dog-friendly outdoor dining; water provided.
Follow FOLIO!