AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): “I prefer by far warmth and softness to mere brilliancy and coldness,” wrote Anais Nin in an early diary. “Some people remind me of sharp dazzling diamonds. Valuable but lifeless and loveless. Others, of the simplest field flowers, with hearts full of dew and with all the tints of celestial beauty reflected in their modest petals.” Even if you usually love cold brilliancy, you need a lot of warmth and softness in the days ahead. To attract the best possible of these, be clear. Be picky! Don’t accept sloppy mush.